Sunday, June 21, 2009

Moving to the next lvl


Well on 17th my daughter moved from being a 5th grader to 6th. Of the two graduations this month in my family I am glad to have at least made this one. It was wonderful to see her walk across the stage and take her certificate. I had to laugh at her regal exit as she left the stage as she put me in mind of Audry Hepburn. I of course recorded it. take a gander at my Princess..

Next up My Twins

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

First Landing State Park


First Landing State Park

This was the first stop on my tour of the state and wildlife parks. Mind you after this trip I realized it will take me a while to go threw the local parks. There are several trails to wander about.

The trail we take today is from the 64th st entranceto the boat dock or the Narrows.. This is part of the 6mi Cape Henry Trail. For a map so you can better see look here FLSP Map.

Note: This is not a trail where you should take kids under 7 unless they like to walk, you like to carry them or you have the Uber ATV of strollers.

So here we go..

Set out of the house around 10am and got to the park 1030ish. Went to the 64th st entrance to the park and let the needed parties know I was going in. DH threaten to have me chipped with GPS if I did not set my Google maps to auto update my location. Once I was on the trail I realized two things, 1. it had been along time since my last vist and 2. there had been changes to the area just from the impact of the weather.

Trees had fallen over and where being held up by the sheer mass of the other trees. The water was still that gross murky black that it had been from the time the first settlers arrived to now. It was fall the first time I came here and most of the woods had died out. Now being Spring/Summer the area was green with beauty which depending on where you where stand can be a bit unsettling.

When you have memories of the land being dry and baren the streams don't seem to come so close to the trails but once they green up you realize just how close the edge really is. Moving along the trail the lake peaks threw the trees and eventual you get to various areas where you can see it as a whole. This is the view from my favorite spot on the lake by bench. The bench sits so high up that my legs dangle like a little kids in a grown up chair.

As you move threw the woods sometimes you find things that make you wonder what folks where doing here or what may have happened. It struck me odd to see this with the rule of the park being "Take only Pictures Leave Only Footprints" Moving along you come to a area where the Ospray sometimes nest and the view is awe inspiring tho a bit creepy.



The lake that you first encounter when you enter runs all the way to the bay. Of course the whole are is not the park. Across the water are homes of more well to do per say. If you are wondering how well to do this should give you a idea.

Growing up we have all heard that moss gross on the north side of the tree. I am here to confirm it is a bold face lie. Or at least it is here. Just as you get to the cool Helo there you begin to see traces of moss on one side of the trees. Dont be fooled because as you travel threw what I call the "Moss Jungle" you will see where it has taken over.



This is the section of the trail my kids stopped and looked at me like I had lost my mind. ( they where 7 and 8 at the time) I assured them it was ok and we moved along. what made it so funny is one son wanted to touch the moss and I said fine. Now mind you I had impressed upon them the don't disturb nature rule. My 7yr old reachs up to touch it and a peice falls to the ground. The look on his face and the insuing reaction trying to get it back in the tree where Mastercard worthy.

To say the least I laughed the whole way thru this area untill of course I decided to head off the main trail.. Yeah about that... Wandering off the main trail is not exactly wise when you have a sense heading of say of 0. Which sad to say is what mine is close to. I did have enough sense ( and hearing) to know what side the water was on and where the road was but not much more.

Even with that I had a blast following it untill I got to the part where it ran along an embankment with a 5ft drop, which is not so bad considering I am 5'3. The problem was all the fallen trees and branches I would have hit if I had slipped. But on ward I go... The problem was not going up the trail it was comming back.


I got part way back up the trail when I relized that there was another one that broke of the one I was on and I had not seen in on the way in. Which way to go Which way to go . Fortune for me I am a extremly visual person and I was able to pick the right path but as I stood there I had to laugh at a news story about a lost but local family in First landing.

Getting back on the trail you keep going untill you come to a parking area for the small beach that is located there. Futher up you find another trail and a set of stairs that lead you to what is called the Narrows. If you keep going you finally come to the boat ramp.

Making it to the end of this portion of the trail I decided to walk back via the road as to impead any erges to wander off on a trail. Of course half way back what do I find but the Osprey /Long run trails. (never been on that one) temped to take a detour my need for the port a potty proved to be far greater. so that trail will have to wait till next time.

You can check out the rest of the pictures in the slide show up top.

Lesson Learned


  1. Spray OFF (bug repellent) all over your exposed skin not in spots.seems they can find the spots you missed.
  2. Locks are a wonderful thing. The can be used like the hair fans used in Africa to keep the mosques off your face. ( like in Coming to America or Charlies Angels)
  3. Never joke about the family that got lost in First landing and had to be rescued by helicopter. It could happen (kinda)
  4. Go Potty at both ends of the trail
  5. Listen to Ted aka teddy bear when he says take a walking stick to check the bushes before you step.

Cooking With Herbs


A few weeks ago I started a small garden with basil, lemon thyme and a few other herbs as well as tomatoes, beans and egg plant.



Well today I had a ton of meat to cook up that I pulled from the deep freeze and with one I took cut up chicken, small potatoes of various types, celery, diced tomatoes , fresh lemon thyme, basil and oregano.

Wow is all I can say. This is the first time I have gotten fresh off the vine herbs and cooked with them and to say it tasted great is a understatement.



of course now I am hooked on the fresh herbs for cooking.

Twitter Comments from Family

These are the tweets he sent as I left for my first park adventure:

@Avanili Be safe and fix phone so we can find the body please.

While @Avanili gets to traipse around in the real woods pretending to be a level 37 Draenei Shaman-whachamacallit, the rest of us work.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Staycation Day 1

Well, today I am officially on vacation from work. It maybe only for a week but I plan on making the most of it. I don't mind traveling but I am just not in the mood for the planing and packing and all the kissy face stuff comes from visiting family nor do I want to do the Hey I am a tourist thing.

So this time I am staying home and Hitting the local sites. Its a shame to live here and have not seen what they offer the tourist. it like living 3hrs from DC and never going to the the Smithsonian. Wait that's us ok then something else to add to my list.

I will be hitting the parks as well as working on my blogs and homework and housework (yuk). I was bouncing threw some links and found the blog called Stiletto Diaries. Mind you if you follow the link be for warned it may not be what you expect but then again maybe it will. If Missionary is the only position you are into this is not the site for you. I was looking threw her site and attached myself to the idea of posting a list of things I want to do before I die, Her Bucket List

Looking thru there are many things that I had already done and taken for granted or maybe not relized that it was something other wish to do. So I will be adding a list to this blog and we will see where it goes.

Snuck out this morning with DH and got IHOP and Starbucks coffee walked around the shopping mall hit home depot and back home to relax and clean steam cleaning the twins room is oh so much fun.

The coming home part was funny cause we snuck in the office door and watched the kids go out the front looking for us. Then watch as they made rounds from the front to the back and then inside where we scared the piss out of them. It's the small things that makes life fun. ( evil grin)

Friday, June 12, 2009

Slowing Down

Today was one of the most relaxing days I have had in a very long time. It all started as I posted earlier with me stopping at Starbucks and sitting still long enough to realize I had not actually relaxed and just let go in a very long time. The wave of relief that fell from me from just sitting down for a few minutes was unbelievable.

Once my daughter was back at school I had all types of busy need to do plans I did not want to go home form Starbucks so I decided to adventure as my husband calls it. I am sure there are time and will be again in the future that neither he nor other people who care for me are thrilled with my walking off into the trails of the national parks and wildlife refuges.

Today turned out to be one of natural and spiritual blessings and some pretty funny moments as well..
So I played hooky from my constant rush and headed out to Back Bay. Well it helps if you first remember what road you have to turn down them of course that good old green moo la it real handy. Who knew you had to pay to get in during tourist season. ( Duh)





OK, so all the way back to the little food mart I go to the only ATM for miles and I do mean miles. show a tourist how to use her credit card at the ATM ( go figure) nice lady though and then off back to the way I came.

On the way back I make a pit stop at the Little Island Beach/Park for an hour and a half. Then off to Back Bay Wildlife Refuge. If you want to read about those to then head over to my story blog and check it out. lol it will be to long to post here anyway.





After that I headed home stopped at this great roadside veggie/fruit stand and got some green tomatoes, cherries and plums. I also got my favorite flowers. Sunflowers remind me of the Movie Under the Tuscan Sun and has become my reminder of the fact that you get the things you ask for sometimes you just have to wait . Anyway headed home and hit Trader Joe's with DH and then home to make him some Fried Green Tomatoes.

Went for a walk and then got adopted by a duckling who would not stop following me. DH had to chase him off so he would not follow me across the street. I laughed so hard and trying to out run a duck and then watch him chase it off and run from it did not make it any better. Needless to say we had to find a different way home.




Then we sat in the back yard and watched the heat lighting in the clouds and drank Starbucks not a bad day.


So today turned out to be one of the best days off I have ever had.. Oh did I tell you my vacations starts next week. I already know what I am gonna do. I will visit the wildlife parks in my area and blog my adventure. If you want to know how many we have the total is around ( looking up how many) uhh, never mind the number well just take the ride..

See you on the trails.....

Sitting still

Well I had written a post earlier today but it has disappeared. It was about how I had been on the move so much that I had forgotten what it really meant to slow down and be still for a bit. It was 1130 and I felt as though I had a million things to do in one day and it seemed over whelming to me. I decided on the spur of the moment to just sit down and eat my yogurt and drink my coffee for a change. All this inspired by the lady sitting down eating and relaxing on my way in. Little does she know she spawned a day that was much needed and will be greatly remembered....Will tell you about my day on my next post..

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Gross Knowledge

Ran across this on Wiki while looking up info on the terrain theory EWWWWWWWWWWWW Dysentery Bedouin treatment be damned

Homework ?

Well I had long forgotten what it was like going to school and it being self paced you would thing it was easier. Not, I have to find the time and them make myself read and take notes. The funny thing is I glanced over the test questions no biggie I got this. Ha.. yeah went back reread highlight and then took notes. oh and Projects .. Huh

Yeah forgot what it was like to have to think. I don't mean like the normal stuff but to really deep down kind of thinking. What is your philosophy of... OH yeah that kind of thinking I have not done in a while. Yeah this is going to be some real work here. New territory new knowledge ...new Thinking..

Did I mention my Spelling will have to improve..